Essay by Dr Cherno Omar Barry,
UNESCO-NATCOM
Cherno Omar Barry, PhD Programme Officer UNESCO/NATCOM |
Introduction
On this occasion of International Women’s Day, I
wish to share my humble contribution to the present debate on the state and
role of women in our society. I also intend to use The Gambia as a case study
to give indicators on how much we have progressed in promoting the question of
the Woman.
There is no question that once the issue of the
Woman’ Right is mentioned, it makes most of us Gambian men uneasy and
uncomfortable. This is quite understandable. Unfortunately, the message has
carried with it too much baggage that it has created more controversy mainly
because it is not being treated objectively. Another reason is because it is
seriously misconstrued or badly interpreted.
How can it be objective when
whoever speaks is either a man or a woman? What needs to first be understood is
that this is not a fight between Man and Woman. It is simply an evaluative
trend we should go through in a world that calls for it. The era is that of the
Woman as the main focus. It is time we change certain habits and practices.
To quote the American feminists and women’s
rights activist, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, in her essay ‘Declaration of
Sentiments’, « The history of mankind is a history of respected injuries and
usurpation of the part of man towards woman, having in direct object the
establishment of an absolute tyranny over her”.
Literature is a powerful weapon through which
women are able to voice out their pains and worries as well as enlighten their
women folk. They are able to express feelings of love, anger, fear and
confidence nobody knew they have. With the use of poems and short stories,
essays and novels, they speak out. Betty Rollin wrote, “Women are now beginning
to think and do more about development of self, of their individual resources.”
And a very famous and successful writer and poet
of her time, the American Adrienne Rich added “…women can no longer be
primarily mothers and nurses for man: we have our own work cut out for us.”
The women above arouse feelings to the world;
feelings of anger and betrayal, feelings of oppression and domination, and
particularly feelings for freedom, self-recognition and identity. Fiction
writers, essayists and poets take up the pen fully backed by feminist’s
movements who give them moral and intellectual support.
In her essay entitled ‘Hunger’, the Canadian
writer Maggie Helwig wrote, “Women are taught to take guilt, concern, problems,
onto themselves personally; and especially onto themselves”.
In the
Marital home
One of the most discussed topics under social
domination is marriage, which is labelled as the institution of hell. The
husband is lord and master in the home. The simplicity and explicitness of the
meaning above is easily grasp by someone living in our part of Africa where the
man not only constantly asserts his authority in the home but also finds all
the necessary means of maintaining that authority and not lose it. Our African
cultures have always given the man an overprotective status. Overprotective
because he believes even where the woman gets to his house as a wife, she
remains a child to be admonished and corrected continuously. In short, the
expressions “women are not mentally complete” has become quite a common excuse
to continue given the man that power.
Elizabeth Cady Stanton wrote, “In her covenant
of marriage, {the woman} is compelled to promise obedience to her husband, he
becoming, to all intend and purposes, her master – the law giving him power to
deprive her of her liberty, and to administer chastisement.”
Mary, Lady Chudleigh stressed on the same point
in her poem entitled “To the Ladies” an excerpt of which is:
Wife and servant are but the same/But only
differ in the name:/For when that fatal knot is tied,/Which nothing, nothing
can divide,/When she the word ‘Obey’ has said,/The man by the law supreme has
made,/Then all that’s kind is laid aside,/And nothing left but state and pride.
Despite few improvements in recent times, in
polygamous marriages, as in monogamous marriages, we men continue to decide the
marriages alone. The consent of the woman is less important or not sought at
all. This is reflected in So Long a Letter by Mariama Ba and
in Xala
by Sembene Ousmane where women find themselves in a situation where their
husbands chose a second or third wife, without being consulted or their opinion
sought. In So Long a Letter, however, the man hardly considers an educated woman
useful elsewhere despite the growing number of educated women. In a
conversation between Daouda and Ramatoulaye, the first nurtures the idea that
women are destructive once outside their homes. A large number of women in the
National Assembly would be disastrous to the country. Ramatoulie retorts, “No,
we are not incendiaries, we are stimulants! We have a right, just as you (men)
have, to education, which we ought to be able to pursue to the furthest limits
of our intellectual capacities.”
Adrienne Rich – whose principal strength lies in
social and political issues – centred her themes on women’s consciousness and
their societal roles. With a firm and clear voice, this very distinguished lady
reflected in her work a necessity in change of the social conditions by
altering social, political and philosophical attitudes toward women, especially
Americans. Snapshots of a Daughter in
law, one of her most successful poems, pictures a woman haunted by voices
telling her to resist and rebel, voices which she can hear but not obey. This
is a clear image of the caged woman. ‘Until we {women} can understand the
assumptions in which we are drenched, we cannot know ourselves. And this drive
to self-knowledge for women is more than a search for Identity: it is part of
her refusal of the destructiveness of male dominated society’ (A. Rich, When We Dead Awaken:
Writing As Revision)
This can be related to the African context where
parents decide who marries their daughter, the daughter obeys and never
complains. In fact in some cases, the daughter is bartered for financial
gratification for the family. Amie Sillah, in her collection of short stories Silent
Voices has adequately reflected this.
Even in marriage, it is sometimes too difficult
to cope and thus the rebellious actions of certain women ensures. Where she
endures, such traditions weigh heavily on the woman’s shoulders. In most cases
the husband hardly cares for the family, leaving the mother at home to handle
the children. In D. H. Laurence’s Odour of Chrysanthemums, a woman is
portrayed living in a loveless marriage and becoming a mother and a servant.
The Wolof will call this 'meubal' meaning a decoration of the house. “He and
she are only channels through which life had flowed to issue in the children.”
Betty Rollin, in her essay Motherhood, who needs it firmly,
states that “It doesn’t make sense anymore to pretend that women need babies
when what they really need is themselves.”
Women eventually found such situations
encumbering and uncompromising. They are not objects or toys. They need freedom
and consideration, but above all they need to establish an identity. She is not
there to be reduced to an object, her soul and individuality discarded, thereby
enabling the man to handle her with greater safety, and making her a toy. She
may well prefer to live alone and rebel against such treatment. One can then
say there is little harm in living unmarried. If marriage does not promise happiness,
then living alone could be the most advantageous.
Yet, in most socio-cultural contexts, living unmarried is
more difficult for the woman than the man. Evelyn Fox Keller, in her essay
“Women in Science: A Social Analysis” clearly confirms this when she writes,
“Our society does not have a place for unmarried women. They are among the most
isolated, ostracised group of our culture.” Is this not a fact too in the
African context? People tend to be shocked once an elderly respected woman is
found unmarried. In most cases, one may be labelled a witch, abnormal or
unmarriageable. Like a songbird, the woman is caged and her freedom – which
cannot be considered as freedom at all – is to obey and accept social
domination and cultural oppression.
Intellectual
pursuit
Through the last three centuries, intellectual
oppression has been one of the most powerful force against women’s domination.
For instance in A Wife’s Story, Panna succeeds in getting educated but her
mother was deprived of going for French classes at the Alliance Française.
Exposing this point in her essay entitled ‘Declaration of Sentiments’,
Elizabeth Cady Stanton writes; “He has denied her the faculties for obtaining a
thorough education, all colleges being closed against her.” The little right women
had in education was so minimal, so insignificant that there was no right at
all. Gradually, women began to get access to education and time proved that
educated women can be as productive as men and in some cases more responsible.
Adrienne Rich in her essay ‘Taking Women Students Seriously’ gives a
confirmatory note when she writes, “But long before entering college, the woman
student has experienced her alien identity in a world which misnames her, turns
her to its own uses, denying her the resources she needs to become
self-affirming, self-defined.”
Today, educated women have proved beyond doubt how
resourceful they can be and have shown quality in their work. Where the man is
pompous and proud, the woman is gentle and simple. Where the man, though educated,
feels it more advantageous to oppress the woman, she on the contrary uses her
education to build an understanding and create a harmonious life between them.
The man believes the woman cannot live in a man’s world. The woman believes the
man alone will find the world a burden without her intellectual assistance.
Isn’t it said that educate a man and you educate an individual but educate a
woman and you educate a whole nation?
The
Gambian Woman today makes the news
The theme this year at the UNESCO is celebrating
women and their access to media as well as giving them the chance to make the
news. According the UNESCO data, despite what has been achieved since the
Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action in 1995, only 24% of the people
questioned, heard, seen or read about in both the written and the audio-visual
media are women where 76% are men. Only 16% of the stories focus on women
issues. UNESCO has released this year a Global report on the status of Women in
the media.
In The Gambia however, a tremendous stride has
been achieved in giving the women the chance to excel in the media. The Gambia
Radio and Television services can boast of having more female broadcasters than
men giving the National news on the television. A break-recording feat is
having the first female professional camerawoman. As for television programmes,
the most successful are the Fatou Show
and Nyuni neen which are all
anchored by distinguish ladies.
One cannot deny that the status of the Gambian
woman has been elevated. The Women Act has been billed and passed to law. The
Women’s Bureau has continued to function effectively pursuing its mandate to
empower women. Women associations have sprouted out in all corners of the
country. Projects for women in different forms (literacy programmes,
micro-finance, and horticulture) have been given a great boost. In politics and
education women have been given the front line and are proving not only
trustworthy partners but exceptionally skilful leaders.
The establishment of FAWEGAM, WODD and GAMCOTRAP
have given a voice to the women and have raised controversial issues pertinent
to change some of our views and practices that have for so long affected our
societies. There is no question that violence against and abuse of women, in
whichever form, should remain unacceptable and punishable by law. Every effort
should be deployed to help our societies understand that most of our socio-cultural
practices harmful to women cannot be promoted at any cost.
Gambian women such as Dr Isatou Touray, Mrs
Adelaide Sosseh, Mrs Hannah Forster, Mrs Emily Sarr, Mrs Amie Sillah and a host
of others have raised concerns about women’s rights, the future of women in
national development during their consultative workshop of the AU Women’s
Protocol. Today, giant strides have been made with the support of national and
international organisations. Beijing has begun to move women issues much
further. Issues raised are quite pertinent and they need serious reflection. Up
to this moment, it has been proven without doubt that women have the
motivation, the determination and the will to make Gambia paradisiacal.
With all due respect to my men folk, we excel in
self-aggrandizement and personal gratification. With an equal dose of the two, equilibrium
between the man and the woman might be created where the tasty and the sour can
douse life’s vicissitudes. Women should be given all the chance they need at
all levels of national development.
Conclusion
Even where the call to promote women issues
remains quite an important one and a task a challenge, and where The Gambia
continues to register success in its efforts in this sector, we should bear in
mind that caution must be taken in the methodology used in promoting these
concepts. We have established that violence is unacceptable so there cannot be
a compromise in this area. However, issues such as female excision should
require constant sensitisation and education to gradually eradicate it. The
process will surely take time because of the erroneous religious nature it is
associated with.
Polygamy is another controversial topic but it
is fundamental to first educate people on the dangers or inconveniences of
being in a polygamous marriage. The choice should remain with individuals to
choose to be polygamous or monogamous despite the complications. As long as it
is a religious recommendation – not without conditions surely - it behoves the
married couple to make that decision.
On a final note, we should keep in mind that we
have excellent values that have made our societies unique. In combatting the socio-cultural
ills, as long as we do not forget that in our definition of rights and
privileges, roles and responsibilities, we do not forego those values that make
us humane and imperfect, progressive and dynamic then there is little doubt
that we will continue shining out as the model for all other societies. In the
process of defining what rights are, some societies have gone decadent and are
more or less becoming inhumane and lifeless. A harmonious existence full of
tolerance and love in a society of cultural diversity and multi-ethnicity has
become our identity so also should it be our forte. Every effort must be taken
to uphold those values at any price.
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